Teaching Your Children The Value Of The Simple Things In Life
Teaching Your Children The Value Of The Simple Things In Life
If you successfully do this, children will be more well-behaved, which will lead to positive social feedback, which will help their development more than anything else.
Written by Liz Bayardelle, PhD | See Comments | Updated 09/07/2021
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Teaching Your Children The Value Of The Simple Things In Life
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Children tend to find themselves wanting more and more in day to day life, because they’re not entirely that conscious of what self-discipline means and why it’s useful. This is why we need to set boundaries for them, so that they become agreeable in social settings, understand that which is right and wrong. If you successfully do this, children will be more well-behaved, which will lead to positive social feedback, which will help their development more than anything else.
We can often see how the opposite often fosters children who have no boundaries, who are repeatedly at odds with those around them, and who end up growing into somewhat bitter and angry people. This is why measures such as teaching our children the value of the simple things in life (rather than thinking they should always expect ‘that toy’ or to have their own way) can be very health. But more than self-discipline, sharing the lovely, simple things can be nurturing to your bond and the nurturing of their spirit.
For this reason, we have curated three tips to help you achieve this. Please, consider:
Involve Them In Cooking & Baking
Cooking is one of life’s simple pleasures, and we’d say that baking is the same, but it can be quite hard to get it right. That’s why crafting beautiful jumbo blueberry muffins with this recipe, a recipe that makes such a delectable treat so easy to enjoy, can help you showcase just how wonderful a little bit of effort can be in crafting such a reward. Then, what’s more, you get to share it together and relax. Simple activities like this make life worth living ten times over, especially with someone you love.
Help Them Fall In Love With Nature
Nature is all around us, but with our sophisticated devices and screens we can often feel a little disconnected from it. Helping your children fall in love with nature, be that through birdwatching, butterfly collecting, or even reserving a fishing license and taking them to a simple river nearby can help them get out in nature and enjoy spending time there. Some farms will offer day out passes you can use to go and visit and feed the animals from time to time too, which helps them more readily connect with rural life if living in a suburban area most of the time.
Make A Day Of Something Simple
A fun day out can be simple. Perhaps you’ll go for a picnic, or take a walk around the local park. Maybe you’ll simply pop into a small cafe nearby for a sandwich and a tea. Heading to the local museum might be nice, too. If you show your children that they don’t need the world to have a great time, they’ll be more likely to enthusiastically join you on all your mini-adventures, and you don’t have to spend over the odds for tickets or great shows all of the time.
With this advice, you’ll be much more likely to share the value of the simple things in life, which is not only good for the spirit, but great for your childs’ development.
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Liz Bayardelle, PhD
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Liz (or Dr. Mommy, as her toddler started calling her after learning what a PhD was) is the happily sleep-deprived mom of a toddler (and professional raccoon noise impersonator), a sparkle-clad kidnado, a teenage stepdaughter, 200 cumulative pounds of dog, and herd of dustbunnies (if daily vacuuming doesn't occur). During nights and naptimes, she uses her PhD in business psychology as an author, speaker, and consultant. She also serves as an executive and principal for three companies, two of which she co-founded with her very patient (and equally exhausted) husband.