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Published in House, Renovation & Repair on May 18, 2019
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Anyone who has ever caught it themselves knows how difficult the remodeling bug can be to shake.
Typical symptoms include mooning over Pinterest, collecting wallpaper samples, and daydreaming of hardwood flooring, bay windows, and more.
Renovating your home is a rewarding process that can be fun and exciting for the entire family. However, that doesn’t mean that it’s easy. In fact, no matter the size of your project, there will be a lot of stress caused.
With that in mind, here are ten things that you can do to make the process a little more bearable.
Before rushing into remodeling your house, you should take a look around the place.
By evaluating your home’s condition, you get a better idea of how much work really needs carrying out.
While you walk around the house, be sure to write down things you don’t like or wish to improve. You should also consider why you want to remodel your home, to begin with. This can give you an idea of home improvement projects you should include in the renovation plan too.
Unless you have an unlimited supply of money, your project is going to need a budget.
This is especially important if you plan to borrow. There are many lending options that you could consider, such as small loans from loved ones or secured joint loans from Evolution Money.
If you’d rather not owe any money, then you should begin to cut costs around the house to save up. Another great way to do it is to make a prioritized list of your desired renovations, put aside a small amount of money each month, and tackle your list item by item as your “renovation fund” grows big enough to tackle the next item on your list.
Once you have your budget, relay it to your contractor so that you don’t overspend.
Every project carried out in your home will come with a price tag.
For this reason, you need to be realistic about how far your money is going to go. You may have big plans for your property, but, if you don’t have the funds, then you might need to sacrifice a few additions or upgrades (or wait until you have the money).
This is why it’s so important that you don’t get your heart set on any plans until you’ve looked at your finances and spoken to a professional. You may find yourself disappointed otherwise.
There are some home improvements that homeowners can typically carry out themselves, but more difficult works should be left to the professionals.
This means that you’re going to need to hire a contractor.
CAUTION: A bad contractor can make you want to burn down your house instead of completing the renovations. We had a bad contractor when we initially moved into our house and the job was finished sloppily, over budget, and late. I didn’t even know that was possible.
Seriously, save yourself the future agony and do your research ahead of time.
Rather than book the first one you find, you should spend some time researching and comparing a few different options. You must always ask builders to provide references and proof of permits, and, if they’re trustworthy, they should be able to do so easily.
Give them clear guidelines, due dates, and consequences (financial ones) for if they miss a deadline.
The very last thing that you should do is plan a renovation during an already stressful or busy time for your family. This will cause more disruption and put everyone on edge.
Because of this, you should avoid exam season and busy work periods. The summer is usually the best time to carry out renovations, as the kids aren’t at school, and you might have some vacation days that you can use.
This means that you can all go out or go away if the mess and noise get too much.
Before you allow work to commence, you should ensure that all home improvement decisions have been made.
You’ve probably planned all of the big stuff, but you should also be sure of the fittings, fixtures, and finishes, as well as any other minor details. When works first begin, they can progress quite quickly. This means that, if there are still decisions to be made, you could face delays. You might also make a choice in the heat of the moment that you regret later on.
As disruptive as your remodel is for you, it can be just as stressful for your neighbors.
After all, they only live next door, so will be able to hear all the noise and see all of the mess just like you can. Because of this, you should let them know about the improvements being carried out in your home. You don’t need to go into details, but you should provide a rough timeline.
This saves you from any arguments that might have occurred if you’d sprung the renovation on them.
(Also, if you live in an area with a homeowner’s association, don’t neglect to get your renovations approved. You definitely don’t want to get halfway through a project only to get in trouble with the powers that be and have to stop or postpone the job.)
Dirt and mess are unavoidable consequences of home improvements.
However, that doesn’t mean that all of your belongings need to be ruined in the process of remodeling. By preparing your house before contractors arrive, you can protect your home and all its contents.
All you need to do is remove everything that you can and cover up the things that you can’t.
Speak to contractors so that you know which rooms you’ll need to prepare for them on which days.
The simplest way to save yourself from the stress of a renovation is to remove your family from the situation.
This means moving out until the works are completed.
If you have pets or small children, this decision will take them out of harm's way. Some people choose to stay with loved ones, others head to a hotel, and some even take the opportunity to go on vacation. Whatever you decide to do, you should let the contractor know about your plans before works start.
Also, don’t forget to factor in the costs of being gone when you do your initial budget.
No matter how well you plan your remodel, there is always the chance that something will go wrong.
More often than not, this will leave you with a cost that you didn’t budget for, putting your finances at risk. Instead of facing these problems when they come, you should prepare for them now by adding an emergency fund to your budget. You may not need to use this, of course, but, if you do, it can save a lot of worry knowing you already have funds available.
Home improvements can cause a lot of stress, but, with the advice above, you can make the process of remodeling your home a lot easier to bear.
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Liz is a wife, mom, blogger, coder (and unabashed digital nerd), PhD student (and huge psychology geek), workout masochist, and occasional human being. She founded The Stay Sane Mom after marrying into the role of stepmom to a preteen girl (and Instagram addict) and shortly thereafter having her first bio kid (now a toddlernado supreme). Her goal is to provide tools and support to help other capable, sleep-deprived, soul-hungry moms master their domains so they have the time and energy to be more than just 'mom'.
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