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Ways to Show Positive Attention to Your Child

Ways to Show Positive Attention to Your Child

Help Your Kids Foster Positive Attitude in these 10 Strategies

Written by Andrea Gibbs   |  See Comments   |  Updated 09/12/2021

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Establishing good relationships with your child is a vital part of positive parenting; however, sometimes, it can be challenging to know how to express affectionate gestures when you're busy with life's responsibilities. 

Here are several ways you can show positive attention and give your child the love they deserve while keeping up with your day-to-day tasks.

1. Praise

To let your child know you're proud of them, you should compliment good behavior or helpful actions. After a good day at school, show your kid how proud you are by giving them a positive comment like "I was so proud of you today" or "You did a great job helping me prepare dinner."

2. Connect

An excellent way to express affection is through connecting with your child. For instance, tell your child how much they accomplished during the day and that they are essential to you. By sharing stories about their day and talking to them one-on-one, your child is more likely to develop stronger feelings of trust and understanding towards you.

3. Spend Quality Time Together

A great way to show positive attention is by spending time with your child. If you know your child is looking forward to going somewhere like a birthday party or play date, make an effort to be there even if it means changing some plans for that day, like going to a later movie or taking a rain check at the park. 

4. Hug Them

When you hug your child, you send the silent message that you care. Although hugs are natural and easy, it's sometimes hard to know when to do it. It would help if you hugged your child in response to something they've done, like helping out around the house or behaving during a family outing at the grocery store. 

5.  Learn to Know Your Child

Whether they are young or old, children sometimes need us to show them that we're there for them when they fall. Don't worry if the only thing you can offer your child is a hug. If you make it a habit of showing your child that you care through affection and connection, it will be easy for them to know how important they are.

 6. Show Positive Attention

You can send the message that you care by showing positive attention to your child. Try to spend time with your child and let them know that they're essential to you in different ways. Let them know you appreciate them when they help out around the house or do something they enjoy.

7. Invest in Them

In addition to showing positive attention, you can show affection by investing in your child's future through education and encouraging them to gain experience throughout life. If your child is talented or gifted, help them through the process of earning a degree. If your child is interested in pursuing an art hobby, try to provide the equipment and supplies they need like canvases, paints, and brushes. A great resource you can use for purchasing art supplies is Amazon, where you'll find high-quality materials at an affordable price.

8. Give Them Your Whole Heart

It's much easier to show positive attention when you're giving it wholeheartedly. You can give them your whole heart by spending quality time with them, like learning about different hobbies, activities, and interests. Encourage and motivate your child to do things they enjoy, like playing sports or music. By giving your child special attention, they will know that they're essential to you.

9. Show Love and Affection

Showing love and affection is the single best way to show positive attention. When you give your child hugs, respect them, and let them know you appreciate them by doing things like keeping their room clean or getting their hair cut. Remember that no one can read your mind, so show affection by just giving a hug and conversing with your kids about their day. Don't expect more or try to force stronger emotions than you already have. 

10. Value Them

You can show positive attention by valuing your child. Work hard, support them, and encourage them to follow their dreams by encouraging them. The best way to show positive attention is by teaching your child that you're proud of their achievements and achievements of the future. Make time for your child and let them know you're there for them. When you are a constant source of love and encouragement, they will be more likely to feel good about themselves.

Benefits of Fostering Positive Attention to Your Child

When you're nurturing positive attention from your child, they are likely to feel like they can call you anytime. You can also encourage positive engagement if you can show love and affection when your child struggles with an issue. Although it may seem like a problem, it's essential to stay calm and not overreact, as this will help make your kids feel good about themselves. 

When you show positive attention to your child, they have a better chance of developing their social skills and feel good about life. The earlier you can foster positive engagement towards your child, the more likely it is that they will be able to build long-lasting relationships.

When you're fostering positive attention from your child, they're likely to form stronger relationships in the future because of the emotional support you provide. 

When children feel important, they are more likely to believe in themselves and make positive life choices.

Now that you know how to foster positive attention in your child, you can begin working on your parenting skills. Positive attention is the key to a healthy relationship with your child and should be a part of every family. If you're concerned about your child's mental health or lack of social skills, consider working on fostering positive attention.

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I'm Andrea Gibbs Born, raised, and still living in New York. I'm a work-at-home mom with a background in business development, strategy, and social media marketing. I'm a blog contributor at Baby Steps Preschool to motivate and educate other parents about how they can get their children ahead of the game in school.

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